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Notes on showing up well.

Tips on photos, profiles, and putting your best (real) self forward — online and off.

Dating Profiles · July 2026

The 3 Photos Every Dating Profile Needs (and the 2 You Should Cut)

Most profiles fail before anyone reads the bio — it's the photo order. Here's the exact sequence that gets more real matches, and the common photo choices that quietly work against you.

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LinkedIn · June 2026

Why Your LinkedIn Headshot Is Costing You Opportunities

Your headshot is often the first impression a recruiter, client, or collaborator has of you. Here's what separates a dated photo from one that actually works for you.

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Behind the Scenes · June 2026

What Actually Happens in a Refine & Attract Session

A walk-through of a real 2-hour session — from the first consult call to the final photo selects — so you know exactly what to expect before you book.

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